I have many questions. One, “HOW DARE YOU!?”

Yeah. I think Kelly Kapoor put it best for situations like this.

As if #quarantinelife didn’t suck enough, Kristin Cavallari (of Laguna Beach and Very Cavallari fame / beacon of feminine #bossbabe vibes since my high school years) just announced that she and husband Jay Cutler are divorcing on Instagram.

First, let me say… RUDE. Second, I honestly don’t think I saw this one coming at all. Did you?

We’ll never know the details, but it’s certainly a sucky thing to see. I loved watching them together. Honestly, the worst part about this is going to be no more Jay cameos on reality TV.

In all seriousness, I know firsthand that divorce is not awesome. I wish their whole family well right now. They’ve got three littles ones to consider here.